• SumoMe

If you read my newsletters then you’re pretty special – and no, I’m not blowing smoke up  your ass! :-)

You are in a very small group of people on the planet interested in becoming a better human being… and that is rare.

So first off, I want to say THANK YOU… for being the kind of person who doesn’t just follow the herd… for being a free thinker… for reading my blog..

Without you, my work makes no difference.

Today I want to share something more personal than usual.

You perhaps know me as the guy who teaches people to be more successful, master their mindset and attract their dream life using the Law Of Attraction.

That business has been generous to me, allowing me to travel, a passive income and the ability to live and work from a beach on an island in the Caribbean.

…and for that, I am extremely grateful.

But the time has come for me to keep growing.

It’s time for me and my business to evolve into something greater, more fulfilling and that makes an even deeper impact in the world.

Does that make sense to you?

My true passion (and training) is rooted in transformational psychological work.

Nothing excites me more than seeing someone light up after discovering a new way to approach their world after doing the inner work to heal their past.

No place is this more important than in romantic relationships, because if you’re not a “whole” human being (psychologically speaking) your relationships are going to suck – big time.

I should know.

Last year, I went through a relationship breakup that brought me to my knees. Healing the wound it triggered was the most challenging thing I have ever undertaken:

  • more scary than living as the only white man for miles in a shanty town among 100,000 black South Africans – for 6 months! (video about it here)
  • more exhausting than training to be a seminar leader 12 hours a day, 6 days a week for 2 years under the guidance of the most rigorous man I know
  • waaaay more challenging than building an international business
  • more nerve racking than my TEDx talk where I told the world that I used to be racist and cheated on my wife
  • more terrifying than going to my family, friends and in-laws to apologize for cheating on my ex-wife

Heart open no matter whatThat shit was a breeze compared to practicing stretching my heart open when the person I loved most left me to explore a relationship with one of my best friends.

Learning to love without conditions?
That’s my favorite kind of ART.

My relationships have taught me more about life, love and myself than ANYTHING else – hands down.

In my opinion, if you want to truly evolve, sitting around meditating on a mountain-top won’t cut it.

You gots to get down and dirty (spelling intentional) and do the inner work in the trenches of your soul.

And the most efficient way to do that work is inside a conscious relationship.


Because in a conscious relationship,

  • if you don’t do the work, the relationship ends – either physically, emotionally or sexually
  • you have the support of a partner who loves you
  • your parter knows your every raw spot and just how to rub it enough to encourage your growth…

It seems that so many of us want a loving relationship, but so few of us have a clue about how to go about doing the inner work.

And that’s what I’m called to support you with next: turning your relationship into a source of endless joy and growth.

Relaxation For ManifestationSo, you probably won’t be getting too many Law Of Attraction blog posts from me in the future, but if you still want to learn to manifest effortlessly, most of my best ideas will remain  as part of my Relaxation For Manifestation product and in the Law Of Attraction category of this blog.

Instead, I’m going to be focussing on helping you create a magical intimate love affair with your partner (or future partner).

If that doesn’t float your boat, now would be the time to unsubscribe using the links at the bottom of this email and you’ll not hear a peep from me again.

Thank you for listening…

Now that I’ve got that off my chest, I have something super special for you.

Last weekend I whipped out my video camera and filmed a few powerful ideas for you that will help you navigate the often tricky (read “high growth”) stage in a relationship that arrives once the honeymoon ends.

I want you to check it out. Why?

Because it’s good.

Because it’s honest.

Because it’s free.

Because it will help you be a better man or woman in relationship.

Watch it here:
Relationship Training Video

Thank you for reading this far and being on this journey called life with me.

I appreciate you.

P.S. In case you’re wondering, there is a very happy ending to my love story. It took 6 months to win my lover back and we’re growing together every day.

P.P.S. Check out the “Love Hangover” Video.

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