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5 Essential Communication Skills For Conflict Resolution

Ever wished you had a magic wand that you could wave and all the angry, upset, depressed people that you waved it at would suddenly start smiling, laughing and even jumping for joy?

Well, I have such a wand… and I made you a quick video showing you how you can get one free and how to use it….

By the end of the video you’ll know 5 essential communication skills for turning an angry person into a purring pussycat…

Once you’re done watching the video, you can download a free pdf printout of these 5 conflict resolution tips.

Let the games begin… Now go share this video with your loved ones and begin practicing!

P.S. As always, your comments are welcomed and always read. Let me know how this video impacted you and if you loved it, I’d be forever grateful if you LIKED it on Facebook and Google +1.

If You’ve Ever Screwed Up, Read This!

A.K.A. How To Be Sexy, Wealthy And Happy… Really!

In this article you’ll learn a time tested technique for becoming the kind of person that is considered sexy, commands respect, and has people knocking down their door wanting to help them succeed.

A few questions before we get started…

  • Why is it that the doors of love, wealth, power, achievement and joy seem to naturally open for some people, while for the majority of the population these things seem like pipe dreams their entire lives?
  • What magic makes people who are successful at dating and relationships different from those who are not?
  • What magic allows Richard Branson have so much influence that just by saying he plans to invest in a business increases it’s share price?

Is it their track record, their network, their skill set, their personality, luck even?

Actually it’s all of those things and more, but if you were to put a magic umbrella over them all, the answer to that question would be TRUST.

The One Single Character Trait That Will Get You Further In Life Than Any Other Read the rest of this entry

The Big Secret Nobody Wants To Tell

Here is the most vulnerable, raw talk I have ever presented. Enjoy…

If you enjoyed this talk, please click the LIKE button above and leave me a comment down below… Thanks.

Are You Selfish?

I recently posted a question on my Facebook wall: “I’m curious about what you lie to yourself about…”

A friend replied that she thinks she may be lying to herself about her “selfless” desire to help people. That in reality, she thinks she may be selfish because the benefits from the “giving”…

I’m sharing my response with you here, because I think you may find it useful… Read the rest of this entry

How To Break Your Negative Relationships Patterns

This is a continuation of the series of posts about my healing process after Amy and I split up. If you haven’t yet read part 1 and part 2, I recommend you do so after reading this.

After spinning into the depths of despair when my girlfriend (Amy) broke up with me last month, I’m on the up and up again. This is good news!

The easy thing to do would have been to take my foot off the gas after having experienced so much pain, but I know that NOW is the best time to do the important work of turning myself inside out to ensure that I don’t repeat the same patterns in my next relationship.

Adele (my ex-wife) stepped in to support me healing and recommended I re-read Harville Hendrix’s book, “Getting The Love You Want.” It was an eye opener, so much so that I want to dedicate a post to what I learned from this extraordinary relationship therapist…

Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting to the same type of relationship over and over again, even when you don’t want to? Read the rest of this entry

How To Resolve Your Core Issue In Life…

Due to the massive response to my blog post "From Heartbreak To Healing – Part 1", I have written Part 2. It's as vulnerable as the first was, if not more…

Have you ever felt like you'll never feel normal again after a heartbreak?

The last month has been a roller-coaster of emotions for me. After Amy left, I was left reeling in self doubt, confusion, betrayal and most noticeably, feeling abandoned. Every day I'd wake up and not know if the hole in my heart was going to cripple me or heal me. Abandonment has always been my core issue, my deepest seated fear… … and in romantic relationships, I have often found myself in the same place I did recently, having my partner leave and feeling abandoned and then spending weeks 'getting over it'. Of course, at an unconscious level I've attracted women who are scared of commitment and ultimately run away when the going gets tough. Read the rest of this entry

From Heartbreak To Healing

This blog post is a stretch for me. It’s a stretch because it’s raw and vulnerable as hell. I actually considered starting another blog under a pseudonym so that I could write my deepest thoughts and feelings anonymously, but then I realized that was a cop out.

If I let fear of judgment get in the way of expressing who I am and what I’m learning, how will this blog ever be of service to you?

So, here goes…

Have you ever felt like you’ve had your heart ripped out from deep inside you when a romantic relationship comes to an end?

I have.

Four weeks ago, my lover Amy (not her real name) decided to end our relationship. Read the rest of this entry

How To Stay Attractive?

Have you ever noticed that sometimes your HOT and sometimes you’re NOT?

 No, I’m not talking about in the bedroom, I’m talking about being attractive - in the Law Of Attraction sense... Ever noticed that sometimes you attract inspiring people and synchronous opportunities and other times it feels like your 'river of attraction' has totally dried up, and the opportunities that once seemed to show up everywhere, are now nowhere to be found?

Watch the video below and you’ll learn:

  • The TWO emotional states that repel Attraction and how to avoid them
  • Why the Law Of Attraction works sometimes and doesn’t work other times
  • How to regain control of your emotions, when they seem to take control of your mind (and your mouth)...


Please leave your comments below and let me know what you think of this concept.

P.S. If you want to learn more about how to use the Law Of Attraction to get BIG results, make sure you read this.

The Senn Interview

In August 2006, Internet Maketing guru, Damien Senn interviewed Bruce in his Design Your Life newsletter. The interview is reproduced below.

Damien: What role does the mind play in whether or not we are successful in life?

Bruce: Quite simply, the mind has everything to do with living a successful life, whatever that may be for you. There’s a common belief that our lives are the way they are now as a result of the actions we have taken in the past. What most people don’t see is that each of our actions originated with a thought in our mind. So, if we want to transform our real world results, we have to take control of our thoughts.

Fundamentally, the only difference between a mega-successful person and the average person is the quality of their thought! If it were really that simple then, why isn’t everyone happy, wealthy and living the life of their dreams? See, most people have absolutely no control over the thoughts they think, hence they have no control over their destiny. A part of what I teach my workshop participants is how to reclaim their natural ability to effortlessly produce results by strengthening their mind, a bit like you can strengthen a muscle in the gym.

Damien: You say that most of us have had our lives hijacked by an 8 year old? How could this be possible? Read the rest of this entry