“Anything that is not love is a misunderstanding”

– Bruce Muzik

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In 2002, I lived in an African ghetto as the only white man – for six months. Here is the story of what I learned there. Both and honor and terrifying, this is easily one of the most raw presentations I’ve ever done.

“Bruce, your TED talk moved me to tears…
and I can count the times I have cried on one hand.”
BRUCE AT A GLANCE
WHO AM I?

I’m a relationship coach, trainer and keynote speaker. I’m obsessed with understanding relationships and helping couples stop fighting and start playing on the same team together.

Each year I help hundreds of couples fix their relationship struggles and save their marriages.

HOW CAN I HELP YOU?

If your relationship feels rocky, the easiest way to start fixing things is to sign up for my free relationship repair emails.

WHAT I BELIEVE

I believe human beings were designed to pair bond. Research shows that we’re simply better as a team.

Yet like in a 3-legged race, a happy relationship requires that you synchronize your steps and learn to run in time together. Otherwise you both trip, fall and get hurt.

Unfortunately, our culture doesn’t support this kind of healthy 3-legged inter-dependence, but instead places independence on a pedestal. There’s nothing wrong with independence, unless you want a loving partnership. For that, you need to be able to depend on each other in a way that makes you both stronger.

HOW MY APPROACH IS DIFFERENT

New discoveries by relationship researchers are showing that relationship struggles are not caused by bad communication, but rather by a lack of safe emotional connection.

Instead of trying to fix a couple’s relationship problems by talking, I first help the couple feel safely connected like they did when they were falling in love. Only then does talking actually resolve anything.

  • Bruce you are a fantastic public speaker and teacher, living with complete integrity.

    Katrina Brunsden
    Katrina Brunsden
  • Bruce is just a wonderful, gifted, compassionate person.He had the students hanging on every word.It was just fantastic and exactly what we needed to bring us all together.

    Amanda Boardman
    Amanda Boardman Chancellor of Eden Campus University
  • I am still married today because of my participation in your program – thank you Bruce Muzik!

    Laura Davis
    Laura Davis
  • Bruce is down to earth, creative and colorful.He makes you understand why you want a relationship in the first place!

    Dezana Aman
    Dezana Aman
  • This sounds cheesy – but you really have changed my life forever.Your program has been put together magnificently.It is easy to see how passionate you are about helping people to love each other and have wonderful relationships.

    Lynette Anderson
    Lynette Anderson
  • Your program is amazing. It has changed my view on relationships.I’m using the things I learned to discuss things with my husband.I find I am listening to him, calming him, soothing him.

    Rebecca Mead
    Rebecca Mead
  • We couldn’t have selected a better coach to help us.You are a gift in our lives, Bruce.You said you were passionate about your work & you proved it!

    Lynette Bailey
    Lynette Bailey
  • Bruce cares deeply about his clients and supporting them in getting the most out of his work.He creates a safe and accepting space to explore yourself and your relationships in order to create greater happiness and wholeness.

    Rhonda Darling
    Rhonda Darling
  • You’re a fantastic presenter and a coach.Joining your program was one of the better decisions I’ve made in life.

    Sylvia Weresniak
    Sylvia Weresniak
  • Bruce, I just wanted to take a minute to thank you for all the work you did with us.Your relationship coaching has brought us closer than we could have ever imagined.Our time with you has made such and difference in our lives.Again, I can not express how grateful I personally am for your kindness and help.

    Jay Ellefson
    Jay Ellefson
  • Bruce is not only an incredible teacher but has an incredible passion for what he does.You will come away with new insight and new tools that will afford you the opportunity to take your relationship to levels you only previously dreamed about.

    Nick Patey
    Nick Patey
  • I was a bit skeptical at first, but then I went just through the first week of Bruce's training and...My point of view on life changed in a positive way.Whoever you are, Bruce will change your life!

    Avanish Appadoo
    Avanish Appadoo
  • Bruce – I just had to reach out and thank you.An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy.Your gentle and penetrating insights are very easily received and I’m confident my road ahead in this relationship will be much smoother as a result.Thanks for turning the lights on for me!

    Craig Filek
    Craig Filek
  • Bruce, I have no words to express how much of a huge help you have been.

    Alexandre Abreu
    Alexandre Abreu
  • I can’t believe it, but my husband and I actually made it through our big fight yesterday.After working with you I think we are actually going to make it. Thank you Bruce!I enjoy how committed you are. You worked some magic here because we were definitely a worst-case scenario!

    Tessa Klein
    Tessa Klein
  • Bruce taught me to see and overcome my escape tendencies, increase my understanding of myself and my partner and gave me the confidence to stay present as we worked through our struggles.Attending his class saved our relationship.

    Cheryl Coffey
    Cheryl Coffey
  • I also struggled through many relationships and two failed marriages.Of all the interesting work I’ve done, Bruce’s curriculum has been the clearest, most helpful, expedient, insightful, most professionally put together and most lovingly and joyfully delivered!

    Kaira Wyss
    Kaira Wyss
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