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This is a continuation of the series of posts about my healing process after Amy and I split up. If you haven’t yet read part 1 and part 2, I recommend you do so after reading this.

After spinning into the depths of despair when my girlfriend (Amy) broke up with me last month, I’m on the up and up again. This is good news!

The easy thing to do would have been to take my foot off the gas after having experienced so much pain, but I know that NOW is the best time to do the important work of turning myself inside out to ensure that I don’t repeat the same patterns in my next relationship.

My ex-wife stepped in to support me healing and recommended I re-read Harville Hendrix’s book, “Getting The Love You Want.” It was an eye opener, so much so that I want to dedicate a post to what I learned from this extraordinary relationship therapist…

Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting to the same type of relationship over and over again, even when you don’t want to? Read the rest of this entry

The Power Of Vulnerability

I truly believe that being vulnerable is the most effective way to experiencing satisfaction in life. When I watched this TEDx talk by Brene Brown, I was moved by her research into Vulnerability. I'm sharing it here becasue I believe you'll get a lot out of it.


How To Resolve Your Core Issue In Life…

Due to the massive response to my blog post “From Heartbreak To Healing – Part 1“, I have written Part 2. It’s as vulnerable as the first was, if not more…

Have you ever felt like you’ll never feel normal again after a heartbreak?

The last month has been a roller-coaster of emotions for me. After Amy left, I was left reeling in self doubt, confusion, betrayal and most noticeably, feeling abandoned.

Every day I’d wake up and not know if the hole in my heart was going to cripple me or heal me.

Abandonment has always been my core issue, my deepest seated fear…

… and in romantic relationships, I have often found myself in the same place I did recently, having my partner leave and feeling abandoned and then spending weeks ‘getting over it’.

Of course, at an unconscious level I’ve attracted women who are scared of commitment and ultimately run away when the going gets tough. Read the rest of this entry

From Heartbreak To Healing

This blog post is a stretch for me. It’s a stretch because it’s raw and vulnerable as hell. I actually considered starting another blog under a pseudonym so that I could write my deepest thoughts and feelings anonymously, but then I realized that was a cop out.

If I let fear of judgment get in the way of expressing who I am and what I’m learning, how will this blog ever be of service to you?

So, here goes…

Have you ever felt like you’ve had your heart ripped out from deep inside you when a romantic relationship comes to an end?

I have.

Four weeks ago, my lover Amy (not her real name) decided to end our relationship. Read the rest of this entry

How To Feel Good When You’re Feeling Bad?

I just got this great question in from one of my personal coaching clients and I wanted to share it with you as I think you’ll find it useful…

The Question

Bruce, in spirit of tapping into more of your wisdom, what are some of the techniques you’ve used personally or have seen work well in others to snap out of down times?I’ve just had 1.5 days of feeling quite down. I’ve done some good analysis on it and one of my actions from it was to ask you the question above.

Techniques/Things that have worked well for me in the past have included:

  • Exercise / swimming
  • Eating fruit
  • Calling a friend
  • Writing in my diary
  • Tidying up
  • Listening to great music

Let me know! I have a sense you’ll have some great insights.

My Answer Read the rest of this entry

Can An Idea Kill?

I made this weird video to promote TEDxSinCity. It actually has a profound message if you listen carefully.

Don’t Take Me Too Seriously…

OK, I did a really dumb thing last night, filmed it and found a way to squeeze a valuable lesson out of it...

P.S. Please leave me a comment and let me know what you're going to let go of as a result of watching the video. P.P.S. If you missed the incredibly valuable teleseminar I recorded with Hannes Dreyer and Mike Handcock last week, make sure you listen to it or download it here.

If you’re an entrepreneur, small business owner, or considering becoming one, press play below…

You’ll learn from three real entrepreneurs, Mike Handcock, Hannes Dreyer and myself about:

  • How a regular guy turned 79 cents into R10,000,000 with none of his own money
  • Why goal setting is a dead art and the new better way to achieve your financial goals
  • A formula for riches that works every time
  •  5 traits that all successful entrepreneurs have, that you should have too if you want to succeed as an entrepreneur.

Press PLAY below to listen now or download it here:

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P.S. Please leave me a comment and let me know what you learned… I read every one.

The Cycles Of Your Business

Do you know where your business is in its life cycle?

Most entrepreneurs have no idea that there is a cycle of stages that their business will go through. When you know where your business is in the cycle, you’ll know what you need to do next.

In the video below, my good friend Mike Handcock explains the cycle of business. If you’re an entrepreneur, I know you’re going to find this valuable.

How I Conquerd A Childhood Fear…

Have you ever not done something you really wanted to do because you were too darn scared?… and then hated yourself for chickening out?

I have.

This weekend, I conquered a childhood fear and fulfilled a lifelong dream at the same time… and then I created a 3 minute video to inspire you to conquer yours.

Life’s too short to be held back by limiting beliefs and irrational fears.

Watch the video and conquer yours…

Your partner in success,


P.S. In this quick video I reveal a very out of fashion clothing accessory. Wear it at your own risk…

P.P.S. Please leave a comment below and let me know what fear you’re going to conquer this week and how you’re going to do it…

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