An Open-hearted Letter About A New Direction

If you read my newsletters then you’re pretty special – and no, I’m not blowing smoke up  your ass! :-)

You are in a very small group of people on the planet interested in becoming a better human being… and that is rare.

So first off, I want to say THANK YOU… for being the kind of person who doesn’t just follow the herd… for being a free thinker… for reading my blog..

Without you, my work makes no difference.

Today I want to share something more personal than usual.

You perhaps know me as the guy who teaches people to be more successful, master their mindset and attract their dream life using the Law Of Attraction.

That business has been generous to me, allowing me to travel, a passive income and the ability to live and work from a beach on an island in the Caribbean.

…and for that, I am extremely grateful.

But the time has come for me to keep growing. Read the rest of this entry

5 Essential Communication Skills For Conflict Resolution

Ever wished you had a magic wand that you could wave and all the angry, upset, depressed people that you waved it at would suddenly start smiling, laughing and even jumping for joy?

Well, I have such a wand… and I made you a quick video showing you how you can get one free and how to use it….

By the end of the video you’ll know 5 essential communication skills for turning an angry person into a purring pussycat…

Once you’re done watching the video, you can download a free pdf printout of these 5 conflict resolution tips.

Let the games begin… Now go share this video with your loved ones and begin practicing!

P.S. As always, your comments are welcomed and always read. Let me know how this video impacted you and if you loved it, I’d be forever grateful if you LIKED it on Facebook and Google +1.

How To Feel Your Best Every Day

Have you ever wondered why some days you feel PHENOMENAL and other days you feel just… BLAH?

In this short 3 minute video, you’ll discover how you create both… and how to have more phenomenal days…

If you do the exercise the way I describe it in the video above, you’ll discover something truly valuable about yourself and how you go about creating your reality. This is a high leverage exercise, and I recommend doing it right now.

Here are my highest leverage activities that energize and drain me. I’d be curious to hear yours in the comments below.


  • Eating a high protein breakfast within 30 minutes of waking up.
  • Visualizing my ideal future every morning using my Relaxation For Manifestation mind programmer.
  • Listening to an inspiring audio-book while doing mundane activities, like cooking or driving
  • Drinking 2 liters of water each day.
  • Doing creative work that keeps me in my Wealth Dynamics Profile.
  • Exercise – Kitesurfing or going to the gym
  • Leaving the house and working from a vibey coffee shop


  • Avoiding anything – particularly sharing how I am feeling with my intimate partner
  • Going without eating or drinking water for more than 4 hours
  • Hanging on to resentment
  • Resisting the way things are
  • Not completing the 1 major task I set out to do for the day
  • Consistently not sticking to my calendar
  • Checking business related email before 2pm
  • Wasting time doing things that add no value to my life or the lives of others

P.S. I’d be very interested to hear what energizes and drains you? Feel free to leave me a comment below.

How To End Suffering…

If I told you that you never had to suffer again, would you believe me? In this video, you'll learn:
  • How to end suffering for good
  • The difference between pain and suffering and why it's important to feel pain
Register for the Breakup Solution Summit for free and hear me teach a bunch more distinctions about:
  • How to stop replaying the past over and over in your mind and move on with your life today peacefully and powerfully
  • How to turn a messy breakup into an opportunity you can benefit from
  • How to use your breakup to become more self-aware, so that your next relationship is not a repeat of your last one

P.S. Your opinion matters to me. Please leave me a comment below. I read each one...

Read this next: 5 Healing Conversations To Have After A Relationship Breakup

The Big Secret Nobody Wants To Tell

Here is the most vulnerable, raw talk I have ever presented. Enjoy…

If you enjoyed this talk, please click the LIKE button above and leave me a comment down below… Thanks.

In this video, I interview Bryan Franklin, the “$10m Coach…”

Bryan shares some powerful insights and distinctions he’s learned from coaching executives from Apple, Google, Linked In and more….

P.S. Please leave your comments below and share what you learned…

P.P.S. If you are interested in Bryan’s Program, click here to get a free 15 minute consultation with him to find out if the program is for you…

7 Principles Of Conscious Relationships

The Most Powerful Transformational Tool Known To Man?

In my opinion, a conscious, loving relationship is THE SINGLE most powerful transformational tool there is. Whether or not you’re in a relationship or interested in learning about the conscious kind, the distinctions I am about to share will be useful in any context, because our lives are made up of relationships.

If you’ve been a regular reader of this blog, you probably know that my last relationship recently broke down. This got me thinking about what I want in a future partner and what I feel will make it last…

I’m going to approach the concept of “conscious romantic relationships” as a system, with components that make the system run as designed…

Although the 7 components I will put forward here don’t include every piece of the puzzle, these are the ones I find most useful. I hope you do too.

This blog post includes a video and article. Watch the video first and then read the article below…

By writing this, I am not claiming to be a relationship expert. However, I’ve screwed up and loved in enough relationships to have learned a thing or two about what doesn’t work and what does.

1.  Close Your Escape Hatches

In romantic relationships, we all have escape hatches – ways to avoid dealing with the issues that confront us when we embark on the journey of loving another in the context of a committed relationship. Read the rest of this entry

Limiting Beliefs And How to Live With Ease

If your limiting beliefs are running your life, you’ll always struggle to get what you want out of your life.

In this video, I explain why so many of us struggle to succeed and what to do to live life with ease.

On Taking Responsibility

Taking responsibility is a topic everyone loves to hate. Most of us don’t want to hear that we’re “not taking responsibility” or that we “need to take responsibility”.

It’s a word that has been loaded with years of meaning.

However, until you find yourself able to take responsibility for every single little bit of of your life, you’ll always be wondering why you’re not getting everything you want out of life. In this video I explore this idea deeper…

My Ghetto Liberation

In this video interview, I share about my experience living in the black ghetto of Guguletu in South Africa as the only white man among 100,000 black Africans.


P.S. Please leave your comments below and share what you learned…

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